Saturday, May 2, 2009

Tips to build up Confidence


More than One Way to Skin a Cat: Adventures in Creative Thinking

How many times have you caught yourself saying that there could be no other solution to a problem – and that that problem leads to a dead end? How many times have you felt stumped knowing that the problem laying before you is one you cannot solve. No leads.  No options.  No solutions.  

Did it feel like you had exhausted all possible options and yet are still before the mountain – large, unconquerable, and impregnable? When encountering such enormous problems, you may feel like you're hammering against a steel mountain. The pressure of having to solve such a problem may be overwhelming.

But rejoice! There might be some hope yet!

With some creative problem-solving techniques you may be able to look at your problem in a different light. And that light might just be the end of the tunnel that leads to possible solutions.

First of all, in the light of creative problem-solving, you must be open-minded to the fact that there may be more than just one solution to the problem. And, you must be open to the fact that there may be solutions to problems you thought were unsolvable.

Now, with this optimistic mindset, we can try to be a little bit more creative in solving our problems.

Number one; maybe the reason we cannot solve our problems is that we have not really taken a hard look at what the problem is. Here, trying to understanding the problem and having a concrete understanding of its workings is integral solving the problem. If you know how it works, what the problem is, then you have a better foundation towards solving the problem.

Not trying to make the simple statement of what problem is. Try to identify the participating entities and what their relationships with one another are. Take note of the things you stand to gain any stand to lose from the current problem. Now you have a simple statement of what the problem is.

Number two; try to take note of all of the constraints and assumptions you have the words of problem. Sometimes it is these assumptions that obstruct our view of possible solutions. You have to identify which assumptions are valid, in which assumptions need to be addressed.

Number three; try to solve the problem by parts. Solve it going from general view towards the more detailed parts of the problem. This is called the top-down approach. Write down the question, and then come up with a one-sentence solution to that from them. The solution should be a general statement of what will solve the problem. From here you can develop the solution further, and increase its complexity little by little.

Number four; although it helps to have critical thinking aboard as you solve a problem, you must also keep a creative, analytical voice at the back of your head. When someone comes up with a prospective solution, tried to think how you could make that solution work. Try to be creative. At the same time, look for chinks in the armor of that solution.

Number five; it pays to remember that there may be more than just one solution being developed at one time. Try to keep track of all the solutions and their developments. Remember, there may be more than just one solution to the problem.

Number six; remember that old adage," two heads are better than one." That one is truer than it sounds. Always be open to new ideas. You can only benefit from listening to all the ideas each person has. This is especially true when the person you're talking to has had experience solving problems similar to yours.

You don't have to be a gung-ho, solo hero to solve the problem. If you can organize collective thought on the subject, it would be much better.

Number seven; be patient. As long as you persevere, there is always a chance that a solution will present itself. Remember that no one was able to create an invention the first time around.

Creative thinking exercises can also help you in your quest be a more creative problems solver. 

Here is one example.

Take a piece of paper and write any word that comes to mind at the center. Now look at that word then write the first two words that come to your mind. This can go on until you can build a tree of related words. This helps you build analogical skills, and fortify your creative processes.

So, next time you see a problem you think you can not solve, think again. The solution might just be staring you right in the face. All it takes is just a little creative thinking, some planning, and a whole lot of work.


Dear friends, STEPPING YOUR FUTURE TO A BETTER YOU!!
AS human beings we know that we lack something or the other in life as we are not perfect.However life is the greatest gift of adventure and valuable gift that God bestows upon, to each one of us. Life is the sweetest delight and joy that God have shower his blessing upon us and it is now, our duty to make used of these wonderful opportunities and shine in life for a better self, better family, better Society, Community and a better and prosperous World to live in.
"Life is our Valuable Gift" So lets live life to the fullest. Each one of us no matter how unique we may be in our own way, But Our Life is Precious,we have our own value and virtue, to stand up for ourselves, to rise in life, to attain growth and development in both Physical and Psychological and to have a better future and better generation at large.
I Am here, to those who likes to share information and opinions on some few tips as how and what should we do to acquire a positive and healthy living in and around the environment as a whole. These include several tips which will surely be helpful to you as per my experienced. These tips give me more strength to myself and to lots of my friends too. Well, We cannot alter our past habits or events however, DETERMINATION can improve your weaknesses and shape you beyond your outlooks. So are you ready to explore your world for a better you?
Confidence : Confidence means self-assured and self secured.
A self confidence person will do what he believe to be right even if other mock or utilize him, He is willing to take risk in order to achieve better things in life, He is admitting his mistakes and learn from them, accepting Compliments graciously on his achievement.
Ten ways to instantly build up our confidence:- 
  1. Dress Sharp: Your dress must make you comfortable, decent and graceful.
  2. Good Posture: Mind your Body Language while Sitting, Standing, Walking, Talking etc.
  3. Walk Faster: Learn to walk faster, you know where your destination is, be alive and kicking.
  4. Be thankful: Always have gratitude in what ever you do or achieve.
  5. Compliments: Be ready to give compliments to other people whom you think they deserve to be encouraged.
  6. Sit in the front row: Learn to sit in front if there are important meetings in order to be able to concentrate and avoid distractions.
  7. Work out: Practice and persist in difficulties, Exercise yourself for around fitness, growth and development.
  8. Focus on contribution: Learn to contribute and share your thoughts and feeling to develop and promote team spirit.
  9. Speak up: Speak up what ever doubts or ideas you have in your mind, Share your opinions with others.
  10. Stand up for yourself and others:Have faith in yourself, Say what you think its right by supporting your ideas and be willing to volunteer yourself to help others in need or to inspire others by taking the first step to an action.
"It is never too late to mend".These are just the Ten first aid tips for you to act right now at this very moment But with Determination. However for a successful and better self in both physical and psychological Improvement Confidence can't without its strong pillars listed below.
Confidence consequently will develop as the most powerful vitamin juice that will enable you to quench your thirstiness from the fruitful tips given below. So here are the fruit seeds for you to sow them nurture and reap."You will reap as you sow".
Personality development
Its characteristic are- thought, Feeling and Behavior.Development mean to grow, progress or mature– so , anybody can at anytime develop his/her personality with an effort to attain a better self. My friends we need to develop our Personalities in today's competitive world.
  • Competition: The better the personality the greater the chances to SUCCESS and VICTORY!
  • Self Image: As individual,one would love to have respect so as to feel good about our self. The main pillar to live healthy living.
  • Responsibility: All human being are bound with their own duty in life. Undoubtedly everyone has the responsibility of contributing to family, society, country and the world as a whole. Therefore ask to your self -What is your duty?
Better Personality: Thus Changes in our personality is certainly the most important. “If a ball is leaking..fix the leak, don’t waste time in pumping the ball again and again!”

  • Positive thinking(Rationality)
  • Attitude or behaviour
  • Determination
  • Compassion
  • Inspirations
  • Learning and knowledge
    Time Management
  • Goal and victory
  • Successful Leadership
Well, my dear bloggers,I will share my opinion to each of the above tips in detail latter one point after the other.(I will be there as sooner as possible,)meet me there ok? At the moment let me come back to the next highlighting points that play a vital role in building our confidence much much better...
The best thought and idea are of little use if we do not communicate them effectively.
Soft skills and
Better Communication skills:
  • Interpersonal skills
  • Effective Communication skills
  • Pattern of Communication skills
  • Powerful ways of communication skills.
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