Inspirational Vitamins For Personality Development...

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Change your Thinking habits:

A person who always entertain positive and healthy thoughts is a rationalize person. He is wise, reasonable, intelligent and the likes. Rationality make a person plan his objective with an intelligent

thoughts and action. Positive thoughts are a great asset. So let us learn to adopt the tips of a rationalize person below :-

• A rational person is always an optimist, who will convert weakness into strength.
• A rational person will takes failure as a pillar to success. He learn from his mistakes.
• A rational person sees difficulty as an opportunity etc. He understand that when one door closes another opens.
• A rational person always trust life. He is alert to insecurity instead of being worried. He acts and be creative upon problems rather than complain or blame. He takes control over the blame-game and so Stop blaming. He take charge and act maturely.
• A rational person will build relationships which are strong and make it a long lasting one which consequently contributing to growth and development.

As a person, one has to know how to tackle life and float in it rather than fight with life. You can't fight the waves however you can learn to float on it.
Thus, Rationality is a sure sign of maturity making one rise up in self esteem and gain recognition from the world.

ATTITUDE OR BEHAVIOR

Attitude is a person's outlooks, thoughts and feelings, manners, mindsets ,which leads to responses to different performance or action in terms of behavior.
Attitude as an inner traits, plays a major role in a battle field of defeat and victory, convert difficulty into opportunities but by the flip of a coin, even a last minute of negativity can lead to failure or missed opportunities. Thus, one should learn to understand and accept his weakpoints and behaviour and have the determination for the need to change that weakpoint for a better self. One should learn the art to operate from happiness and not for happiness. Happiness is an attitude. To achieve victory in life is also an attitude, So lets grasp the tips of contributions as an opportunity to Personality Development in term of Attitude.
Attitude is more important than fact:
your attitude is more important than facts because positive attitude can empower you and consequently, when you are empowered, you are a solution to a problem rather than a victim to a problem, The positive attitude is you have never done something so logically earlier so do it! Take charge of your thoughts,You can make it and enjoying the glory of dwelling in such a space makes you a winner.
ATTITUDE WITH DETERMINATION TO DEVELOP ALL OUR PHYSICAL AND PSCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS:
Failure is a pillar to success:
An easy task become difficult when you have a negative attitude, however a difficult task becomes challenging when you have a positive attitude. Treat your defeats as a lesson to victory.Good attitude makes you accept your mistakes and learn from them, Make yourself stronger with each defeat you have to endure and tolerate, gather more strength for your next attempt. So what, if you fail go for it again, check the mistakes you made and try again as long as you have the attitude to learn from failure and make yourself less failure and greater success, Success and more SUCCESS. Failure is your friend who make you realized your mistakes and help you to shape your future.
Used your rationality:
Let reason prevail over emotion because most often, one who thinks and decides through emotion without using reason develops negative attitudes and habits. Change your emotions.The quality of your life is the quality of your constant emotion. So when ever your emotion is low, don't ever let negativity overtakes you, No matter what the situation, be optimistic and positive. Cheer up! divert yourself from being emotional, manage your emotions and never let emotions controls you, think of a happy incident and smile thus, negativity runs away from positive people so, set Goals! Decide which emotion is best suited to achieve a desired result and lets live life to the fullest.
Make positive plan:
When one's fail to plan, he plan to fail. Do you plan to fail? Certainly not! So remember to plan in all that you do. Plan has values that connect to goodness and connect to a positive change in your attitude for a successful future ahead.

Flow and you will definitely grow in life through an attitude which will lift you beyond the vastness of life without getting stuck, endure, persist.. and attain victory.
A child learn to walk by falling again and again, Each time he falls, he rises up and persist until he finally made it up and later step by step he even can ran.
So friends I'll tell you that really Child is the father of men. Follow his example and make a determination plan that "I WILL NOT GIVE UP UNTIL I SUCCEED".
So keep flowing.... on and on for a continuous success.

DETERMINATION
Determination means having a strong will power to attain something better in ones life. If one develops his determination in whatever he plans or do, no doubt he will be successful in life. When a person determine to be somebody in life he will have a strong desire to achieve his goal so he is determine to work hard and here there will be no questions of likes and dislikes however it is all about Goal achievement and accomplishment.
To have determination practice these few tips below:
Be detemined:
make a list of easy plans that you have in your mind as a step by step instruction to do inorder to achieve your goal, as time passes by and you think that you can master these list easily, try to increase your lists and work out again.You will notice the degree of differences that you make, determine to accomplish your dream , plan for it and persists. you will fine that you are a winner of your own discipline. Being discipline always give you self esteem as everyone will have trust in you and undoubtedly you will be winner.
Use Tenacity:
Did you missed your first plan? Go for it again, check where your drawbacks lies, If you fail again, that is because you missed to check some of the drawbacks, so rechecked them again never give up easily. If others can do why not you persist...
Have patience:
Do not complaint! Make yourself stronger with each defeat , endure the pain or hardwork that you have given in for attaining your goals, even though if it likes a thorn piercing through a long distance of time, tolerate and keep travelling because the tear drops from your eyes will eventually turns to Diamonds the fruits of tolerance and hardship. Endurance is always lead to success and victory.
Thus Determination is a strong vitamin for better personality as it develops and caste all our fruits whether in physical or psychological. So go for for it now......

Tips to build up Confidence

More than One Way to Skin a Cat: Adventures in Creative Thinking

How many times have you caught yourself saying that there could be no other solution to a problem – and that that problem leads to a dead end? How many times have you felt stumped knowing that the problem laying before you is one you cannot solve. No leads.  No options.  No solutions.  

Did it feel like you had exhausted all possible options and yet are still before the mountain – large, unconquerable, and impregnable? When encountering such enormous problems, you may feel like you're hammering against a steel mountain. The pressure of having to solve such a problem may be overwhelming.

But rejoice! There might be some hope yet!

With some creative problem-solving techniques you may be able to look at your problem in a different light. And that light might just be the end of the tunnel that leads to possible solutions.

First of all, in the light of creative problem-solving, you must be open-minded to the fact that there may be more than just one solution to the problem. And, you must be open to the fact that there may be solutions to problems you thought were unsolvable.

Now, with this optimistic mindset, we can try to be a little bit more creative in solving our problems.

Number one; maybe the reason we cannot solve our problems is that we have not really taken a hard look at what the problem is. Here, trying to understanding the problem and having a concrete understanding of its workings is integral solving the problem. If you know how it works, what the problem is, then you have a better foundation towards solving the problem.

Not trying to make the simple statement of what problem is. Try to identify the participating entities and what their relationships with one another are. Take note of the things you stand to gain any stand to lose from the current problem. Now you have a simple statement of what the problem is.

Number two; try to take note of all of the constraints and assumptions you have the words of problem. Sometimes it is these assumptions that obstruct our view of possible solutions. You have to identify which assumptions are valid, in which assumptions need to be addressed.

Number three; try to solve the problem by parts. Solve it going from general view towards the more detailed parts of the problem. This is called the top-down approach. Write down the question, and then come up with a one-sentence solution to that from them. The solution should be a general statement of what will solve the problem. From here you can develop the solution further, and increase its complexity little by little.

Number four; although it helps to have critical thinking aboard as you solve a problem, you must also keep a creative, analytical voice at the back of your head. When someone comes up with a prospective solution, tried to think how you could make that solution work. Try to be creative. At the same time, look for chinks in the armor of that solution.

Number five; it pays to remember that there may be more than just one solution being developed at one time. Try to keep track of all the solutions and their developments. Remember, there may be more than just one solution to the problem.

Number six; remember that old adage," two heads are better than one." That one is truer than it sounds. Always be open to new ideas. You can only benefit from listening to all the ideas each person has. This is especially true when the person you're talking to has had experience solving problems similar to yours.

You don't have to be a gung-ho, solo hero to solve the problem. If you can organize collective thought on the subject, it would be much better.

Number seven; be patient. As long as you persevere, there is always a chance that a solution will present itself. Remember that no one was able to create an invention the first time around.

Creative thinking exercises can also help you in your quest be a more creative problems solver. 

Here is one example.

Take a piece of paper and write any word that comes to mind at the center. Now look at that word then write the first two words that come to your mind. This can go on until you can build a tree of related words. This helps you build analogical skills, and fortify your creative processes.

So, next time you see a problem you think you can not solve, think again. The solution might just be staring you right in the face. All it takes is just a little creative thinking, some planning, and a whole lot of work.

Dear friends, STEPPING YOUR FUTURE TO A BETTER YOU!!

AS human beings we know that we lack something or the other in life as we are not perfect.However life is the greatest gift of adventure and valuable gift that God bestows upon, to each one of us. Life is the sweetest delight and joy that God have shower his blessing upon us and it is now, our duty to make used of these wonderful opportunities and shine in life for a better self, better family, better Society, Community and a better and prosperous World to live in.

"Life is our Valuable Gift" So lets live life to the fullest. Each one of us no matter how unique we may be in our own way, But Our Life is Precious,we have our own value and virtue, to stand up for ourselves, to rise in life, to attain growth and development in both Physical and Psychological and to have a better future and better generation at large.

I Am here, to those who likes to share information and opinions on some few tips as how and what should we do to acquire a positive and healthy living in and around the environment as a whole. These include several tips which will surely be helpful to you as per my experienced. These tips give me more strength to myself and to lots of my friends too. Well, We cannot alter our past habits or events however, DETERMINATION can improve your weaknesses and shape you beyond your outlooks. So are you ready to explore your world for a better you?

Confidence : Confidence means self-assured and self secured.

A self confidence person will do what he believe to be right even if other mock or utilize him, He is willing to take risk in order to achieve better things in life, He is admitting his mistakes and learn from them, accepting Compliments graciously on his achievement.

Ten ways to instantly build up our confidence:- 

1. Dress Sharp: Your dress must make you comfortable, decent and graceful.
2. Good Posture: Mind your Body Language while Sitting, Standing, Walking, Talking etc.
3. Walk Faster: Learn to walk faster, you know where your destination is, be alive and kicking.
4. Be thankful: Always have gratitude in what ever you do or achieve.
5. Compliments: Be ready to give compliments to other people whom you think they deserve to be encouraged.
6. Sit in the front row: Learn to sit in front if there are important meetings in order to be able to concentrate and avoid distractions.
7. Work out: Practice and persist in difficulties, Exercise yourself for around fitness, growth and development.
8. Focus on contribution: Learn to contribute and share your thoughts and feeling to develop and promote team spirit.
9. Speak up: Speak up what ever doubts or ideas you have in your mind, Share your opinions with others.
10. Stand up for yourself and others:Have faith in yourself, Say what you think its right by supporting your ideas and be willing to volunteer yourself to help others in need or to inspire others by taking the first step to an action.

"It is never too late to mend".These are just the Ten first aid tips for you to act right now at this very moment But with Determination. However for a successful and better self in both physical and psychological Improvement Confidence can't without its strong pillars listed below.

Confidence consequently will develop as the most powerful vitamin juice that will enable you to quench your thirstiness from the fruitful tips given below. So here are the fruit seeds for you to sow them nurture and reap."You will reap as you sow".

Personality development

Its characteristic are- thought, Feeling and Behavior.Development mean to grow, progress or mature– so , anybody can at anytime develop his/her personality with an effort to attain a better self. My friends we need to develop our Personalities in today's competitive world.

• Competition: The better the personality the greater the chances to SUCCESS and VICTORY!
• Self Image: As individual,one would love to have respect so as to feel good about our self. The main pillar to live healthy living.
• Responsibility: All human being are bound with their own duty in life. Undoubtedly everyone has the responsibility of contributing to family, society, country and the world as a whole. Therefore ask to your self -What is your duty?

Better Personality: Thus Changes in our personality is certainly the most important. “If a ball is leaking..fix the leak, don’t waste time in pumping the ball again and again!”

• Positive thinking(Rationality)
• Attitude or behaviour
• Determination
• Compassion
• Inspirations
• Learning and knowledge
  Time Management
• Goal and victory
• Successful Leadership

Well, my dear bloggers,I will share my opinion to each of the above tips in detail latter one point after the other.(I will be there as sooner as possible,)meet me there ok? At the moment let me come back to the next highlighting points that play a vital role in building our confidence much much better...
The best thought and idea are of little use if we do not communicate them effectively.
Soft skills and Better Communication skills:

• Interpersonal skills
• Effective Communication skills
• Pattern of Communication skills
• Powerful ways of communication skills.

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